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What to Do if You've Been Assaulted

If you are a victim of sexual assault, consider the steps below:

  1. Find a safe location away from the perpetrator. Ask a trusted friend to be with you for moral support.
  2. Know that what happened is not your fault.
  3. Preserve all evidence of the attack.
    • Do not bathe, wash your hands, brush your teeth, eat, or smoke.
    • If you are still in the location at which the crime occurred, do not clean or straighten up or remove anything.
    • Write down all the details you can recall about the attack and the perpetrator.
  4. Speak to a confidential, licensed counselor in the Fontbonne Counseling and Wellness Department.
    • The only University resource that affords complete confidentiality is speaking with a licensed counselor in the Counseling and Wellness Department. Below is the contact information for this individual:
      • Director of Counseling & Wellness, (314) 889-1434
  5. Report the incident to one of Fontbonne University’s Reporting Contacts, which include:
    • Any Fontbonne University Public Safety Officer.
    • One of the following memebrs of the Fontbonne Student Affairs staff:
      • Vice President for Student Affairs
      • Associate Vice President for Student Affairs
      • Director of Residential Life
      • Directior of Leadership Education and Student Activities
    • Fontbonne Title IX Coordinators
  6. Report the attack to law enforcement immediately. Local authorities can be reached by calling 911 in most areas throughout the U.S.
    • If you want more information, contact the National Sexual Assault Hotlines at (800) 656-HOPE or by visiting www.online.rainn.org. A counselor can help you understand the reporting process.
    • You may also report the attack to Fontbonne's Department of Public Safety (DPS). For immediate assistance, call (314) 889-4596.
    • Find more information by visiting How to Report, Campus Resources, and Off-Campus Resources.
  7. Seek medical care as soon as possible. Even if you do not have any visible physical injuries, you may be at risk of acquiring a sexually transmitted disease (women may also be at risk for pregnancy).
    • To find a local hospital or healthcare facility that is equipped to collect forensic evidence, contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline (800.656.HOPE). The hotline will connect you to your local crisis center, which can provide information on the nearest medical facility, and in some instances, may send an advocate to accompany you through the evidence collection process.
    • Ask the health care professional to conduct a Sexual Assault Forensic Exam (SAFE).
    • If you suspect you have been drugged, request that a urine sample be collected to preserve evidence.
  8. Recognize that healing from an attack takes time. Give yourself the time you need and know that it is never too late to get help.
  9. Consider the interim measures and offers of accomodation that the university will provide as discussed in the "Interim Measures" section of the Sexual Misconduct Policy.